Chapter 3

"Believe in yourself first, don't care about what others think, you are who you are and who you've always been. No one knows you better than you. "

~Me, The no one.

Dogs will keep barking, they don't really know what's going on, it's just their habit and they are used to it. Similarly, few people will have no clue what you're going thru, yet they will tag you, they will blame you, they will hurt you, they will kill you deep inside, they will spread rumours about you, they will talk irrelevant things about you,they will also rant about you. But you, you know what you're upto right? then why do you even care what they think? you know how capable you are, you know your potential, you know about your life more than anyone. 
Trust me, people who hate you for no reason actually have a reason, they hate you because they envy everything thing you have and they don't. They hate you because you're way better than them and they don't know you. They will bring out all their negativities and antagonism towards you, just deal with it, don't react, because you know, DOGS KEEP BARKING, YOU DON'T REALLY HAVE TO CARE =)
If you try being different people say you're weird, if you be sweet they remark you as desperate or over friendly. If you're sad, then they say you're a drama queen/king. I mean seriously? are you so jobless to peep into others life and rating them without even walking a mile in their shoes? 
Get a life. Yes, that was for all those people who have the habit of ranting about people and they think they're very cool.
If you make a big mistake, something very intense, then yes, people might tag you, you have to deal with it its your fault. 
If they talk about you for no reason, I swear, get up, stand for yourself and slap them.
Trust me, this works.
Okay, just remember, never ever change yourself for the world. 
If people persuade you to change, ask them for reasons, fight the world, alone, because in the end everyone ends up alone. 
But the best thing you can do is IGNORE. 
People shall have a wrong opinion about you, must change the opinion, not yourself. 
Be alert always, sometimes your own friends might rant about you. You never know? they are someone in front of you and a complete different person in front of others. 
Thank you =)

Chapter 2

Trust

• Can you ever trust a person who has lied to you?
• Can you ever trust a person who makes fake promises to you?
• Can you ever trust a person who said they'll be there and they have left you?
• Can you trust your friend who goes around telling your secrets to others?
• Can you trust a person who creates misunderstandings for you everywhere?
• Can you trust a person who breaks your heart?
• Can you trust a person who ruined your life?

Can you? confused, aren't you?

Well, they all say people deserve a second chance.

Trust is at the core of every healthy relationship. When you trust someone, your mind is at peace, and even the thought of that person brings joy to your heart. When it is broken, however, there is a deep and unsettling pain at even the mention of the offender’s name.

Great relationships however, require a high level of integrity in order to thrive. When a violation of trust, large or small, occurs it’s important to examine the conditions that contributed to the situation and to engage in a healing process that will restore trust and goodwill to the relationship.

So what happens when trust is broken? Is it possible to rebuild and restore what has been lost?

Can a crushed paper be brought back to normal?

Can a broken thread be joint again without any flaws?

Yes, I know your answer will be "It depends upon the situation" 

You're right, if the breaking of trust was really intense then, forgiving is a very tough task. But giving the person a chance to prove themselves is very very essential. It might be a misunderstanding that is between you both, who knows? So do not decide anything fast, keep calm, think, have your own space, and only then decide what to do.

People should accept their mistakes, apologize, forget about their ego and promise to be loyal. But for that, even you have to talk to that person, Listen to their justification

All of that being said, like dancing, it takes two committed people ready and willing to move together for something beautiful to happen.

Thank You =)

Chapter 1

Life logic

What people always expect life to be:-

How life actually ends up being like:-

How People pretend to be:-

 

Yes, this is what always happens. Expectations very high. Determination very low. Results will definitely be very bad, but you really can't blame anyone else for whatever is happening with you, if you fail in your task its your hard work that was lacking, if people leave you, its your fault you let them come into your life without thinking even once. If you aim high then you must also work hard towards achieving your goal. If you let people walk into your life only you are responsible for letting them stay or walk away. If someone breaks your heart, it clearly shows that you expected much from them, they never promised. 

So before doing anything, think twice. 
Its you who has to decide their ways, their happiness and everything that lies within life.
So yes, Don't hesitate, be rude, be dominating, be thoughtful before doing anything.

Because sometimes things might look easy, very easy but attempting it might not be a piece of cake.