Trust
- Can you ever trust a person who has lied to you?
- Can you ever trust a person who makes fake promises to you?
- Can you ever trust a person who said they'll be there and they have left you?
- Can you trust your friend who goes around telling your secrets to others?
- Can you trust a person who creates misunderstandings for you everywhere?
- Can you trust a person who breaks your heart?
- Can you trust a person who ruined your life?
Well, they all say people deserve a second chance.
Trust is at the core of every healthy relationship. When you trust someone, your mind is at peace, and even the thought of that person brings joy to your heart. When it is broken, however, there is a deep and unsettling pain at even the mention of the offender’s name.
Great relationships however, require a high level of integrity in order to thrive. When a violation of trust, large or small, occurs it’s important to examine the conditions that contributed to the situation and to engage in a healing process that will restore trust and goodwill to the relationship.
So what happens when trust is broken? Is it possible to rebuild and restore what has been lost?
Can a crushed paper be brought back to normal?
Can a broken thread be joint again without any flaws?
Yes, I know your answer will be "It depends upon the situation"
You're right, if the breaking of trust was really intense then, forgiving is a very tough task. But giving the person a chance to prove themselves is very very essential. It might be a misunderstanding that is between you both, who knows? So do not decide anything fast, keep calm, think, have your own space, and only then decide what to do.
People should accept their mistakes, apologize, forget about their ego and promise to be loyal. But for that, even you have to talk to that person, Listen to their justification
All of that being said, like dancing, it takes two committed people ready and willing to move together for something beautiful to happen.
Thank You =)
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ReplyDeleteJust beautiful!